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Where I Learned the Difference Between Being Held and Being Tolerated
For me, recognizing safe spaces has always been about knowing the difference between being held and being tolerated . There is a difference, and my body has always known it, long before I had the language to explain it. Growing up as a military brat, movement was constant. Cities changed. Schools changed. Any space that began to feel familiar eventually required adjustment. I learned how to read rooms, soften my tone, and make myself smaller so I could fit. I survived many s

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
3 days ago2 min read
They Should Be Your Inspiration, Not Your Blueprint
When I started my business journey in 2020, I had one simple desire. I wanted to have a podcast. That was it. I did not have a grand plan. I did not have a multi-tiered business model. I did not have a vision board full of products, launches, or revenue streams. I just wanted a space to encourage people through conversation. Especially women. Especially those who needed to be reminded that they were not alone. From that single idea, everything else unfolded. The podcast turne

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Jan 144 min read
Gentle Return to Me: How I Pause, Breathe, Reconnect, and Restore
January does not feel like a race for me anymore. It feels like a return. For a long time, I treated January like a reset button that demanded urgency. New goals. New plans. New pressure. This year, I chose something different. I chose a gentle return to myself. Not a restart. Not a rush. A return. This month, I am moving through four intentional practices: Pause, Breathe, Reconnect, and Restore. These are not steps to complete. They are ways I am learning to care for myself

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Dec 30, 20252 min read
What Do the Lonely Do at Christmas?
A LYF According 2 Cree Reflection 'Tis the season to be jolly But how can I be when I have nobody The yuletide carol does not make it better Knowing that we will not be together A silent night I know it is gonna be Joy to the world But it is gonna be sad for me Those words capture something honest that many women feel but rarely say. The holidays can be beautiful, warm, and joyful, yet they can also bring a quiet ache, especially when you are single or spending this se

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Dec 15, 20253 min read
"My December Tradition: Giving with Intention"
The holiday season begins early for me, right on November first , when the air shifts and the world feel a little softer. This time of year, always brings out my spirit of generosity, a feeling shaped by the kindness I received from strangers as a child. Those small acts stayed with me, so now I make it a point to give quietly and intentionally, not as “Cree Cole,” but as myself. I donate to community action initiatives in the Florence area, support winter drives, and offer m

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Dec 1, 20252 min read
“Soft Power, Strong Vision: How I Learned That Self-Care Is My Greatest Business Strategy”
By Cree Cole I’ve learned that being a Black woman entrepreneur means carrying a kind of power the world often doesn’t understand. We’re expected to be everything: visionary and vessel, leader and listener, brand and backbone, all at once. I know that feeling well. As a self-published author, podcaster, and the voice behind LYF According 2 Cree , I’ve spent years creating from my soul, turning pain into purpose, and building something I can call my own. But the truth is, even

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Nov 15, 20253 min read
Choosing Yourself Through the Holiday Season
As we step into the holiday season, I want to speak to your heart. This time of year brings so many emotions at once. There is joy, gratitude, and excitement, but there can also be heaviness. The holidays often remind us of who and what we’ve lost, and sometimes those feelings sneak up when we least expect them. Before everything starts moving fast, I want to remind you to pause. Breathe. Choose yourself. Nurture your peace. Be present for your own life. Living healthy isn’t

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Nov 1, 20253 min read
Pinktober: Why Self-Checks Matter for Black Women’s Health
Let’s Talk About the Reality Here’s what the numbers tell us: breast cancer shows up in all women, but it doesn’t affect us all the same....

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Oct 1, 20252 min read
I’m Doing This 4 Me!
Learning to choose myself so I can love others better For most of my life, I measured my value by how much I could give to others. I...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Sep 1, 20254 min read
Building Influence and Impact: My Journey as a Black Woman Entrepreneur
Entrepreneurship for me has never just been about starting a business. It has been about building influence and creating impact. Over the...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Aug 1, 20253 min read
The Weight We Carry: Healing as a BIPOC Woman in 2025
Being Black or Indigenous in the United States in 2025 often feels like carrying an invisible weight, one woven from generations of pain,...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Jul 1, 20252 min read
"When Fear Becomes Reality: A Black Mother’s Battle with PTSD"
I’ve always had a healthy fear for my son’s life. That’s the silent burden of being a Black boy mom in America. From the time I became...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Jun 2, 20253 min read
"Navigating LYF With Fear: My Story of Trust, Trauma, and Transformation"
I didn’t know it at the time, but I met fear when I was just a little girl. It introduced itself in the parking lot of my grandmother’s...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
May 20, 20253 min read
The Vision of LYF Works Media and LYF According 2 Cree: Pioneering a Dynamic Legacy in 2025
Introduction In a rapidly evolving world, becoming a dynamic visionary requires more than ambition—it demands purpose, creativity, and...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Feb 1, 20252 min read
Fresh Starts and Self-Love: Building the Foundation for a Fulfilling Year
The new year brings with it the promise of fresh starts, new goals, and endless possibilities. January is a time to reflect, recalibrate,...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Jan 1, 20252 min read
Cree Cole: Written in Progress
I spent much of my childhood wrestling with the discomfort of not knowing who I truly was. As a young girl, I felt like I was always...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Dec 3, 20242 min read
Becoming Jayden's Mom
Becoming a mom was one of the scariest experiences of my adult life. At just 20 years old, I was filled with uncertainty about whether I...

Crystal Coleman aka Cree Cole
Nov 11, 20242 min read
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